1．记住该记住的，忘记该忘记的。改变能改变的，接受不能改变的 Remember what should be remembered, and forget what should be forgotten.Alter what is changeable, and accept what is mutable. 2．能冲刷一切的除了眼泪，就是时间，以时间来推移感情，时间越长，冲突越淡，仿佛不断稀释的茶 Apart from tears, only time could wear everything away. While feeling is being processed by time, conflicts would be reconciled as time goes by, just like a cup of tea that is being continuously diluted. 3．怨言是上天得至人类最大的供物，也是人类祷告中最真诚的部分 Complaints are the greatest offerings that God obtains from human beings, as well as the most faithful prayers human beings might utter to God. 4．聪明的代价是矛盾。这是人生对人生观开的玩笑。 Wisdom appears in contradiction to itself, which is a trick life plays on philosophy of life. 5．世上的姑娘总以为自己是骄傲的公主（除了少数极丑和少数极智慧的姑娘例外） Girls always look on themselves as proud princesses, with the exception of a small number of either extremely ugly or exceedingly smart ones. 6．假如敌人让你气愤，那说明你还没有胜他的掌握 It can be inferred that you lack confidence in a victory over your rivals from the fact that you’re irritable against them. 7．假如朋友让你气愤，那说明你仍旧在意他的友情 From that you would get angry with your friends, we can conclude you sitll care about the friendship between you. 8．令狐冲说“有些事情本身我们无法控制，只好控制自己。” 可是，他算什么！！ “ Something is out of our control, so we have to command ourselves.“ said Linghu Chong, a known character in a Chinese novel about persons adept in martial arts(武侠小说？）. Who is, however, fucking he? 9．我不知道我现在做的哪些是对的，那些是错的，而当我终于老死的时候我才知道这些。所以我现在所能做的就是尽力做好每一件事，然后等待着老死。 Only till my natural death.could I tell which of what I have been doing is right or wrong, so now I have to try to do well in everything, and then wait to die a natural death. 10．也许有些人很可恶，有些人很卑鄙。而当我设身为他想象的时候，我才知道：他比我还可怜。所以请原谅所有你见过的人，好人或者坏人 Some may be wicked, and some may be despicable. Only when I put myself in their position did I know they are more miserable than I. So forgive all that you have met, no matter what kind of persons they are. 11．鱼对水说你看不到我的眼泪，因为我在水里．水说我能感觉到你的眼泪，因为你在我心里。 “You couldn’t see my tears cause I am in the water.“ Fish said to water. “But I could feel your tears cause you are in me.“ Answered water. 12．快乐要有悲伤作陪，雨过应该就有天晴。假如雨后还是雨，假如忧伤之后还是忧伤．请让我们从容面对这告别之后的告别。微笑地去寻找一个不可能出现的你！ Happiness is accompanied by sorrow, and it would turn sunny after rain as well. If rain remains after rain and sorrow remains after sorrow, please take those farewells easy, and turn to smilingly look for yourself who is never to appear. 13．死亡教会人一切，犹如考试之后宣布的结果？？虽然恍然大悟，但为时晚矣！ Like the outcome after an exam, death makes us aware of anything, That is, it’s too late to take a tumble. 14．你出生的时候，你哭着，四周的人笑着；你逝去的时候，你笑着，而四周的人在哭！ When you were born, you’re crying but lookers-on were smiling. When you are passing away, you’re smiling but lookers-on are crying. 15．男人在结婚前觉得适合自己的女人很少，结婚后觉得适合自己的女人很多 Man might think that few women fit him before his marriage, and contrarily when they get married. 16．于千万人之中，遇见你所遇见的人；于千万年之中，时间的无涯荒野里，没有早一步，也没有晚一步，刚巧赶上了 Among thousands of people, you meet those you’ve met. Through thousands of years, with the boundlessness of time, you happen to meet them, neither earlier nor a bit too late. 17．每个人都有潜在的能量，只是很轻易:被习惯所掩盖，被时间所迷离,被惰性所消磨. Everyone has his inherent ability( power or capacity?) which is easily concealed by habbits, blurred by time, and eroded by laziness( or inertia?). 18．人生短短几十年，不要给自己留下了什么遗憾，想笑就笑，想哭就哭，该爱的时候就去爱，无谓压抑自己 Be sure that you have never had any regrets in your life which only lasts for a few decades. Laugh or cry as you like, and it‘s meaningless to oppress yourself. 19．《和平年代》里的话：当幻想和现实面对时，总是很痛苦的。要么你被痛苦击倒，要么你把痛苦踩在脚下 While our dream is confronted with the reality, you always feel painful. Just trample on the pain, or you‘ll be beat down by it. 20．真正的爱情是不讲究热闹不讲究排场不讲究繁华更不讲究嚎头的 A true love is what doesn‘t strive for busyness, for extravagance, for luxury, and moreover for hokum. 21．生命中，不断地有人离开或进入。于是，看见的，看不见了；记住的，遗忘了。生命中，不断地有得到和失落。于是，看不见的，看见了；遗忘的，记住了。然而，看不见的，是不是就等于不存在？记住的，是不是永远不会消失？ There is someone that is coming or passing away in your life around the clock, so you may lose sight of those seen, and forget those remembered. There is gain and loss in your life, so you may catch sight of those unseen, and remember those forgotten. Nevertheless, doesn‘t the unseen exist for sure? Will the remembered remain for ever? 22．我们确实活得艰难，一要承受种种外部的压力，更要面对自己内心的困惑。在苦苦挣扎中，假如有人向你投以理解的目光，你会感到一种生命的暖意，或许仅有短暂的一瞥，就足以使我感奋不已。 It‘s true that we have been leading a difficult life, for we need not only to be under various external pressures, but also to be in the face of internal perplexities.You would be affected by the warmth of life if someone gives you a understanding look during your bitter struggle.Even a mere glance would make you moved and inpired. 23．我不去想是否能够成功,既然选择了远方,便只顾风雨兼程；我不去想,身后会不会袭来寒风冷雨,既然目标是地平线,留给世界的只能是背影. I wouldn‘t care success or failure, for I will only struggle ahead as long as I have been destined to the distance. I wouldn‘t care the difficulties around, for what I can leave on the earth is only their view of my back since I have been marching toward the horizontal. 24．后悔是一种耗费精神的情绪.后悔是比损失更大的损失,比错误更大的错误.所以不要后悔 Pentinece is something that enervates our spirit, causing a greater loss than loss itself and making a bigger mistake than mistake itself, so never regret.
更深层次的！Many people do not need good-bye, because of just going by. Forget is that we give each other the best souvenir.很多人不需要再见，因为只是路过而已。遗忘就是我们给彼此最好的纪念。You don’t always get what you wish for; you get what you work for.想要的东西，不是空许愿就能得到的，你得付出实实在在的努力。Ideas are like the stars --- we never reach them, but like mariners, we chart our course by them.理想就象是星星——我们永远无法到达，但是我们象水手一样，用它们指引航程。Loneliness is a beautiful thought, and only in the thinking of the time, it looked so beautiful and lonely.思念是一种漂亮的孤独，也只有在思念的时候，孤独才显得如此漂亮。Love is like am butterfly. It goes where it pleases and it pleases where it goes.爱情就像一只蝴蝶，它喜欢飞到哪里，就把欢乐带到哪里。Sometimes, the simplest advice that you give to others is the hardest thing for you to follow.有时候，你给别人最简朴的建议，却是自己最难做到的。Have a good cry, wash out your heart. If you keep it inside, it will tear you apart.痛苦的哭一场，洗涤你的心灵。假如你忍着泪水，它会将你撕碎。Before we can afford happiness,we should never close up the window,gazing at happiness absorbedly.当我们还买不起幸福的时候，我们绝不应该走得离橱窗太近，盯着幸福出神。Today is not yesterday. We ourselves change. How then can our works and thoughts, if they are always to be fittest, continue always the same?今天不同于昨天。我们自己也在改变。那么，我们的著作和思想，假如想永远不过时，怎么能始终不改变呢？In your life, there will at least one time that you forget yourself for someone, asking for no result, no ownership nor love. Just ask for meeting you in my most beautiful years.一生至少该有一次,为了某个人而忘了自己,不求有结果,不求拥有,甚至不求你爱我.只求在我最美的年华里,碰到你。When a friend is in trouble, don't annoy him by asking if there is anything you can do. Think up something appropriate and do it.当朋友身处窘境，别问你能做什么，思索，并做合适的事。Those habits ultimately stay years in the corner of the pain and burned into our skin together.那些习惯终究留在岁月的角落里，和疼痛一起刻进我们的皮肤。In delay there lies no plenty , Then come kiss me , sweet and twenty , Youth’s a stuff that will not endure.迁延蹉跎，来日无多，二十丽姝，请来吻我，衰草枯杨，青春易过。I don't want to be someone that you're settling for. I don't want to be someone that anyone settles for.我不想要你将就，我也不想成为将就的对象。Can, please don't hand side by side, can hug, please don't hand in hand, can fall in love, please don't separate ;have love, please don't touch ambiguity. 能牵手的时候，请别肩并肩，能拥抱的时候，请别手牵手，能相爱的时候，请别说分开;拥有了爱情，请别去碰暧昧。We have so many needs in our life, but at the end of the day, all we need is...to be needed. 人生中，我们总是有那么多的渴求和需求。然而归根结底，我们最渴求的，不过是被别人需求。Be thankful for your past relationships, someone better suited to you is waiting out there.感谢你逝去的恋情，因为更合适的人正在某处等你。All matters could the good scabs forget to hurt, the only love was not good.所有的事都能好了伤疤忘了疼，唯独爱情不行。To keep someone around you is not love; love is to let the one you love go freely.不是把对方留在自己身边才叫爱，能放手让所爱的人离开，也是爱的一种。When you break up and are still friends, you were either never in love or you still are!分手后仍旧做朋友不外乎两种情况，一是你们从未相恋，二是你们仍旧爱着对方。can meet a person n a mnute, lke a person n an hour and love a person n a day, but t wll take me a whole lfe to forget you.遇上一个人要一分钟的时间，喜欢一个人只需一小时的时间，爱上一个人要一天的时间，可要我忘记你却要用上一生的时间。The difference between giving up and letting go is that giving up is to sacrifice something belongs to you while letting go is to drop those never belong to you.放弃与放手的区别：放弃是牺牲本来属于你的，放手是放下那些从来就不是你的。Though no one can go back and make a brand new start, anyone can start from now and make a brand new ending.虽然没有人可以回到过去重新开始，但每个人都能从现在开始去创造一个新的结局。